晚上看了《玛丽与xxx》这部电影，一直都很平淡，虽然是动画，但却很真实。看到下面的场景的时候，两滴泪水划过脸颊。就是这种平实的真诚，让人感动不已。其实我也不知道为什么会落泪，只是很感动，那一刻。

　　wish:we all have good friends .
　　wish: your best friend is not your only friend.
　　wish:your best friend give you a hug

每个人的一生都像是一条长长的人行道。有的很整洁，然而有的，像我的，沿途有裂缝，香蕉皮和烟头。但是我们必须接受自己，接受自己的缺点和所有。虽然我们不能选择自己的缺陷，然而作为我们的一部分，必须去适应它们而生活。

We can not choose relitavise，but thank god we can choose friends.

故事讲述了（此处摘自豆瓣上的描述）：

　　1976年，8岁的玛丽·黛西·丁格尔（贝丝妮·惠特摩尔 Bethany Whitmore 配音）是澳大利亚墨尔本的一个小女孩，喜欢动画片“诺布利特”、甜炼乳和巧克力。玛丽的妈妈是个酒鬼，而在茶叶包装厂工作的父亲平日只喜欢制作鸟标本。孤独的玛丽没有朋友，某{yt}心血来潮给美国纽约市的xxx·杰瑞·霍罗威茨（菲利普·塞默·霍夫曼 Philip Seymour Hoffman 配音）写了一封信询问美国小孩从哪里来，并附上一根樱桃巧克力棒。44岁的xxx患有自闭症及肥胖，碰巧也喜欢看“诺布利特”动画片及吃巧克力。二人的笔友关系从1976年维持到1994年，期间各自经历了许多人生起伏，直到成年的玛丽（托妮·科莱特 Toni Collette 配音）终于来到纽约看望xxx，而xxx在那天上午平静的去世了……

　　本片获2009年法国昂锡国际动画影展{zj0}动画长片奖，柏林国际电影节水晶熊奖及渥太华国际动画电影节{zg}奖。

也没什么好说的，看过电影的人自然会有一番体会，帖一点剧照和台词吧~~

　　对于肥胖者，你永远不应该比你的电冰箱重，也永远不应该吃比你脑袋大的东西。
　　You shouldn’t ever weigh more than your refrigerator, and to never eat anything bigger than your head.
　　不要应为不笑而顾虑，我的嘴总来不笑，但这并不表示我的大脑没有在笑。
　　Do not worry about smiling, my mouth hardly ever smiles, but it doesn’t mean I’m not smiling in my brain.
　　浪漫和爱情是一门他早已放弃的高深语言，为什么不是咨询面包机的工作原理，或者宇宙混沌理论，要是爱情像数学一样有方程式就好了。
　　Romance and love was a mysterious language he’d given up on, if only it’s how a toaster works or an explanation of chaos theory, if only there was a mathematical equation for love.
　　例举一些小亚（一种自闭症）的特征：
　　{dy}世界对我来说非常的难以理解和混乱不堪，因为我的思想过于符合逻辑和缺乏想。
　　第二我在解析别人的面部表情是会遇到障碍。
　　第三我的手写体很难看，异常敏感，笨手笨脚，而且很容易就会忧虑。
　　第四我喜欢解决问题。
　　{zh1}我在表达感情时有障碍。
　　List some traits of an Aspie
　　No.1 I find the world very confusing and chaotic, because my mind is very literal and logical.
　　2 I have trouble in understanding the expressions on people’s faces.
　　3 I have bad hand writing, am hypersensitive, clumsy, can get very concerned.
　　4 I like to solve the problems.
　　5 I have trouble expressing my emotion.
　　我原谅你是因为你不是完人，你并非xx而我一样，人无完人，即便是那些在门外乱扔杂物的人。我年轻时想变成除了自己以外的任何一个人，伯纳德哈斯豪夫医生说，如果我在一个孤岛上，那么我就要适应一个人生活，只有椰子和我。他说我必须要接受我自己，我的缺点和我的全部。 我们无法选择自己的缺点，它们也是我们的一部分，我们必须适应它们，然而我们能选择我们的朋友，我很高兴选择了你。
　　The reason I forgive you is because you are not perfect. You are imperfect, and so am I. All humans are imperfect, even the man outside my apartment who litters. When I was young, I wanted to be anybody but myself. Dr Bernard Hazelhof said if I was on a desert island then I would have to get used to my own company – just me and the coconuts. He saidIwould have to accept myself, my warts and all, and that we don’t get to choose our warts. They are a part of us and we have to live with them. We can, however, choose our friends and I glad I have chosen you.
　　事实不可强求，顺其自然吧。
　　Que sera sera, whatever will be will be.

       People often confuse me but I try not to let them worry me.(Max)
　　
　　New York is a very busy and noisy place,I would prefer to live somewhere much quieter like the moon.(Max)
　　
　　 I don't like crowds,bright lights,sudden noises and strong smells,New York has all these.(Max)
　　　　
　　The reason I forgive you is because you're not perfect.
　　You are imperfect,and so am I.All humans are imperfect.(Max)
　　　　
　　I would have to accept myself,my warts and all.
　　We don't get to choose our warts.They're part of us and we have to live with them.(Max)
　　　　
　　Everyone's lives are like a very long sidewalk.Some are well paved.
　　Others,like mine,have cracks,banana skins and cigarette butts.Your sidewalk is like mine but probably not as many cracks...(Max)
　　
　　
　　You are my best friend, you are my only friend.(Max)
　　 　

The reason i forgive you is because you are not perfect.
　　You are imperfect,and so am i.
　　All humans are imperfect,even the man outside my apartment who litters.
　　When i was young,i wanted to be anybody but myself.
　　Dr Bernard Hazelhof said if i was on a desert island then i would have to get used to my own company – just me and the coconuts.
　　He said i would have to accept myself,my warts and all,and that we don’t get to choose our warts.
　　They are a part of us and we have to live with them.
　　We can,however,choose our friends and i glad i have chosen you.
　　Dr Bernard Hazelhof also said the everyone’s lives and like a very long sidewalk.
　　Some are well paved.
　　Others,like mine,have cracks,banana skins and cigarette butts.
　　Your sidewalk is like mine but probably not as many cracks.
　　Hopefully,one day our sidewalks will meet and we can share a can of condensed milk.
　　You are my best friend.
　　You are my only friend.













 

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