幼儿园要不要孤立爱咬人的小朋友? « BABY宝宝百科

问题:
我的宝宝三岁了,在小宝宝园如果小朋友一起玩玩具,他去拿人家不给他就会去咬人.老师为了不让他伤到别的小朋友就尽量的把他和别的小朋友分开,让他自己玩.我也不知道这样下去我的宝宝会不会变得孤独,不愿意与人交往呢?

回答:
帮宝宝尽快改掉这个习惯,还是您出面的好.毕竟小宝宝园老师也不好对您的宝宝太严厉了,否则您心理会难受.老师如果不采取措施,您的宝宝咬到别人,人家家长肯定也不干,所以老师只好让他与别人分开.
而我们做家长的对宝宝严厉点,帮他改正不好的习惯是可以的.我一个同事是心理咨询师,我前几天咨询过他(因为前一段我家宝宝爱拍其他小朋友的头,所以我就咨询一下),他说{zh0}是把宝宝的错误与他很不喜欢的事情联系起来,反复几次他就改了.就拿我家宝宝来讲:他不喜欢一个人呆着,所以每次出去玩之前我就告诉他应该如何与小朋友好好相处,如果再拍人家的头,就不玩了,马上回家,自己在一间屋子里呆一会;然后,在外边玩的时候,要特别小心的留意他的动向,在他伸手要拍还没拍到的时候就提醒他:你拍吧,拍完马上回家关起来。他就把手伸回去了(当然,如果真的拍到了,就真的必须回家把他单独关在一个房间,呆几分钟,哭也不行),如此几次以后,他就改了。祝好运!

回答:
不能分开,每次咬人之前让他分散注意力,时间长了就会忘记的。

回答:
老师的做法是错误的,可以跟老师沟通,并加强对宝宝的教育,如果老师还是那样,不如换个小宝宝园

回答:
 当然不可以孤立小宝宝了!不管是老师还是家长都应该耐心的教导宝宝,他咬人无非是想得到自己想要的东西。这主要是靠家长,和平时对宝宝的过分溺爱有很大关系。
 做家长的不要什么都顺着宝宝,老师也不是有意将你的宝宝孤立,他也是为了其他小朋友的安全。
 家长也可以借这个机会让宝宝明白并不是什么东西只要他想要就可以给他的。要让宝宝知道他的这种做法不仅得不到自己想要的东西,还会伤害别人,会让大家不喜欢自己,那样他再想要其它东西就很难了!
 让宝宝做个懂礼貌的乖宝宝,必要时也要有挫折教育。不要以为宝宝小什么都不懂,其实性格的养成就是在小时候。

Question:
my three-year-old baby, and if the children in kindergarten playing with toys, they do not get to him he would have to bite. Teachers in order to prevent him from injury to other children as much as possible on him and other children separated from his own play. I do not know if this situation continues I will not be lonely baby, do not want to do with people?

answer:
As soon as possible to help give up the habit baby, or you come good. After all, not a good kindergarten teacher to your children too severely, or else you will be hard for me psychologically. Teachers if no measures are taken, your child bite other people, they sure parents not dry, so the teacher had to separate him with others. and we do
parents of children severely point, help him to correct bad habits can be. I was a psychologist colleagues, I consulted him a few days ago (because my house before the baby for some other children love the first shot, So I click on the consultation), he said that the best is the child of error and do not like the things he links he repeated several times changed. Take the child in terms of my family: he did not like a person stay, so Every time before going out I told him how to get along well with children, if the first再拍people not playing, and immediately returned home, in a house to stay for a while; then, when playing outside, to be especially careful attention to the movement of his, in his hand to shoot still pictures to remind him when: you want to make it, finishing immediately locked up to go home. He would hand back (of course, if captured, they really must go home alone in his room, spent a few minutes, crying too), so after several times, he changed. Good luck!

answer:
Can not be separated from each bite distracted him before, will be long forgotten.

answer:
Teacher’s approach is wrong, you can communicate with teachers, and to the strengthening of their children’s education, or as if the teachers, it is better to change the kindergarten

answer:
Of course, the children can not be isolated! Whether parents or teachers should be teaching children, he is no more than bites want what she wants. This is mainly by parents, and usually the child has a lot to spoil too much.
parents do not do anything along the kids, teachers, nor is it intended to isolate your baby, he is to the safety of other children.
parents can also take this opportunity to let your baby does not understand what he wants as long as you can to him. Let the child know that he is not of such an approach is not only what she wants, but also hurt other people, given all of us do not like themselves, as he’d like the other things it is hard!
allow the baby to be a good boy懂礼貌, if necessary, the education must have setbacks. Do not think that small children do not understand anything, in fact, develop a character is a child.

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