对猫，我是又爱又怕。
还记得小时候看动物世界，讲猫的温顺，很好的家居宠物。却不曾想它仍保留了原始的一面。野性···夜里呼朋引伴，在不知是哪一家的后院里聚集···
它们有自己的圈子，封爵···统领···

我们生活的圈子。需要用心去经营。
有的人在学习的时候就花大量的时间去为自己拓宽圈子。广积人脉。但学习可能受影响。
而有的人更多的是读圣贤书，圈子很小。也许有知心的朋友
这两种人都会患得患失。

你对此如何看？
你对你的圈子有什么要求，什么标准？
你如何选择来平衡这两个极端？
I sometimes think I am a girl with two different personality traits-extroverted and introverted,but fortunately they agree well with each other and I think in general I am an introverted girl.I may sometimes laugh to tears with my friends but still feel empty in my heart.The astrology books say that girls belong to aquarius are always in sorrow,when you see into their eyes when they are happy,you can still find the deep sorrowness in their eyes which they can't dissimulate.I always remind myself to be happy,although life is tough,it's a good gift for us which we should cherish.
In the university,I don't pay to much attention to expand my personal network.Just as the topic said,many people try many means to meet and make as many friends as possible.They try to be the head of the Student Union or they enter other activities to show them up.Get a lot of friends is not a bad thing and provided if we are snobbish people,friends can be wealth to us since we can take advantage of them when we need their help,but making friends also costs time.To me and to everybody,time is money,especially the time in the campus.So I just try to use it to the fullest and make friends with the people who walk into my life.It sounds a little passive but it suits me well.
Sometimes,party and crowd make me lose the ability of thinking and make me feel a little panic.I would rather find a place and stay alone.Learn to enjoy the loneliness is a hard thing and now I am trying to learn it.Bustle can't teach you anything,only loneliness can.
I have just seen the movie the legend of 1900 and was deeply moved by the movie.In the moive,1900 once said: "Land? Land is a ship too big for me. It’s a woman too beautiful, it’s a voyage too long, a perfume too strong, it’s music I don’t know how to make. "He refused to get on the land and finally died together with the ship.He is a man who know clearly about his limitations.To him,piano is easy "Take a piano, hmm? The keys begin, the keys end. You know there are 88 of them. Nobody can tell you different. They are not infinite. "However,the world is so complex to him"You get me up on that gangway and you rill out in front of me a keyboard of millions of keys, Millions and billions of keys that never end.That’s the truth, Max, they never end. That keyboard is infinite. And if that keyboard is infinite, then on that keyboard there is no music you can play.You are sitting on the wrong bench. That’s God’s piano. "We admire the people who can challenge their limitations,but I also find the loveliness of the 1900 and was deeply moved by his story.
There is always exist a circle that we belonged to and a lifestyle that suits us best,just as the life of the 1900,it's a tragedy but it's also splendid and beautiful.